For an affordable 8-day mommy retreat in the USA, starting on a Saturday with a private transfer from the airport, I recommend staying in Wolf Creek Ski Area in Colorado. Wolf Creek is one of the more affordable ski resorts in the U.S. while still offering excellent skiing conditions, cozy accommodations, and scenic mountain views. You’ll get a great balance of skiing, relaxation, and wine drinking, all at an affordable price.
Here’s the suggested itinerary:

Day 1: Arrival at Wolf Creek Ski Area

• Arrival: Private transfer from Durango-La Plata County Airport (DRO) (about 1.5 hours) to your resort in Pagosa Springs or Wolf Creek Ski Area.
  
• Accommodation: Check into Wolf Creek Ski Lodge or Pagosa Springs Resort, which offers budget-friendly lodging with comfortable amenities. Many lodges in Pagosa Springs offer great value for money and are only a short drive from the resort.
  
• Evening: Enjoy a welcome dinner at a local restaurant in Pagosa Springs such as The Alley House Grille for hearty American or regional cuisine.
  
• Overnight: Relax in your cozy room with a hot bath and peaceful mountain views.
  

Day 2: Skiing at Wolf Creek

• Morning: After breakfast, head to Wolf Creek Ski Area, which is known for its affordable lift passes and excellent snow conditions.
  
  • Private ski lesson: For a personalized experience, book a private ski lesson if you'd like to refine your skills.
    
  • Skiing: Explore the ski area with more than 1,600 acres of terrain and some of the best snow in Colorado.
    
• Lunch: Take a break at one of the ski area’s restaurants, such as The Raven’s Nest, which offers casual dining and a great spot to relax between runs.
  
• Afternoon: Continue skiing or enjoy the mountain views with a relaxing gondola ride.
  
• Après-ski: After skiing, relax with drinks at the Wolf Creek Tavern, a cozy spot offering local beers and wines.
  
• Dinner: Head to The Springs Bar & Grill in Pagosa Springs for a relaxed dinner with delicious options and a great wine selection.
  
• Overnight: Return to your resort for a restful night.
  

Day 3: Skiing & Scenic Exploration

• Morning: Enjoy another day of skiing at Wolf Creek, exploring different trails, or try snowboarding if you’re looking for a new challenge.
  
• Lunch: Grab lunch at The Base Camp Grill, located near the ski slopes, known for its warming soups and sandwiches.
  
• Afternoon: If you’re feeling adventurous, take a snowshoeing hike or try cross-country skiing on the surrounding trails.
  
• Wine Tasting: Head to a local winery or tasting room such as The Pagosa Springs Winery, which offers a relaxing setting and an excellent selection of local wines. Alternatively, enjoy a wine-pairing dinner at your resort.
  
• Dinner: Enjoy a hearty, warm dinner at your resort or venture out to The Pagosa Brewing Company, which serves great food and craft beers.
  
• Overnight: Return to your resort and relax.
  

Day 4: Skiing & Snowmobile Adventure

• Morning: Head back to Wolf Creek Ski Area for a day of skiing or snowboarding.
  
  • Private snowmobile tour: If you want a new adventure, you can book a snowmobile tour to explore the surrounding backcountry and enjoy the winter scenery.
    
• Lunch: Stop for lunch at one of the mountain cafes or enjoy a packed picnic.
  
• Afternoon: After lunch, continue skiing or explore more of the snowmobile trails.
  
• Après-ski: Afterward, head back to Pagosa Springs for après-ski drinks at a local bar or restaurant. The Springs Resort & Spa is a great spot to unwind.
  
• Dinner: Have a cozy dinner at The Lost Cajun or another local restaurant in Pagosa Springs.
  
• Overnight: Return to your lodge for a peaceful evening.
  

Day 5: Rest and Relaxation Day (No Museums or Art Galleries)

• Morning: After breakfast, take a slow morning to unwind. You can enjoy a leisurely breakfast at your resort or a local café.
  
  • Spa Day: Pamper yourself with a spa treatment at The Springs Resort & Spa in Pagosa Springs, which offers hot springs, massages, and relaxing thermal pools.
    
• Lunch: Enjoy a light lunch at your hotel or a relaxing café nearby.
  
• Afternoon: Spend the afternoon in hot springs, where you can soak in the healing waters, or simply relax in your resort with a good book and mountain views.
  
  • Alternatively, enjoy some yoga or meditation at your resort or book a private session.
    
• Dinner: Enjoy a quiet dinner at your hotel’s restaurant or venture to The Italian Farmhouse for a comforting meal.
  
• Overnight: Rest in the cozy atmosphere of your resort, ready for the next day.
  

Day 6: Skiing at Wolf Creek & Wine Tasting

• Morning: Head back to Wolf Creek Ski Area for another day of skiing.
  
  • Skiing or snowboarding: Explore new areas of the ski resort, or enjoy your favorite runs.
    
• Lunch: Take a break at The Raven’s Nest for a delicious lunch on the slopes.
  
• Afternoon: After skiing, consider a snowshoeing adventure around the surrounding forests for a more relaxed way to enjoy the scenery.
  
• Wine Tasting: Visit The Pagosa Springs Winery for a wine-tasting session to unwind and enjoy local wines.
  
• Dinner: For dinner, enjoy a wine-pairing meal at your resort or check out The Grill at the Springs Resort for a fine dining experience.
  
• Overnight: Relax back at your resort.
  

Day 7: Snow Adventures & Wine-Pairing Dinner

• Morning: Enjoy a leisurely breakfast before heading out for a snowshoeing or cross-country skiing adventure in the San Juan Mountains.
  
• Lunch: Have a relaxing lunch at a café or restaurant in Pagosa Springs, such as Café Colorado.
  
• Afternoon: For a more laid-back afternoon, enjoy a snowmobile tour or another visit to the hot springs.
  
• Wine-Pairing Dinner: Book a wine-pairing dinner at your resort or a local restaurant. The Springs Resort offers wine-pairing options, or you can visit The Pagosa Springs Winery for a more intimate experience.
  
• Overnight: Enjoy your last evening in Pagosa Springs.
  

Day 8: Departure

• Morning: Enjoy a final breakfast at your resort, soaking in the mountain views one last time.
  
• Departure: Private transfer to Durango-La Plata County Airport (DRO) for your flight home.
  

Additional Notes:

• Private Transfers: Private transfers will be arranged for all trips between the airport and the resort.
  
• Affordable Skiing: Wolf Creek offers some of the most affordable lift tickets in Colorado, making it a great choice for a budget-friendly ski retreat.
  
• Skiing & Wine: You’ll get plenty of skiing and snowboarding time at Wolf Creek and experience wine tasting at Pagosa Springs Winery.
  
• Rest & Relaxation: Day 5 is dedicated to pampering yourself, with spa treatments and time to relax in the natural hot springs.
  

This retreat is perfect for a balance of affordable adventure (skiing, snowmobiling) and relaxation (wine tasting, hot springs). Let me know if you’d like any changes or additions!